How I Survive Traveling with Kids Without Looking Like a Hot Mess: 7 Chic Packing Tips
The Disaster That Changed Everything
Travel used to be my favorite part of life—cute outfits, a good book, headphones, one or two movies, maybe a cup of tea on the plane. Then I had kids, and it turned into a circus. Last year’s family trip was the wake-up call: I was a sweaty mess in mismatched socks; my 3-year-old turned a juice pouch into an airplane, soaking his pants and shirt in sticky chaos, so I had to change him in the tiny airplane bathroom while stressing about what I’d do if he did it again before we landed, and I forgot my charger. I looked like I’d been through a blender while other women with no kids on the plane somehow looked like superstars. I decided right then—I’m a stylish mama, and I’m not letting travel steal that from me. Here’s how I pack now to keep my cool (and my vibe) with two tiny humans in tow.
1. Three-Outfit Rule (Because You Don’t Need More)
I used to overpack— six to seven outfits for a four-day trip, just in case. Spoiler: I wore the same tee and pants three days straight. Now, I stick to three outfits: one for travel (comfy but cute, like a black jogger and oversized sweater or shirt), one for day (jeans and a nice simple blouse), and one for night (basically pajamas or a nice comfy shirt and pants). Everything coordinates, so I’m not carrying multiple bags and a suitcase.
2. The Blanket Scarf That Does It All (My Ride-or-Die)
A big, soft scarf is my travel BFF. It’s a blanket when the plane’s freezing, three travel pillows for me and my kid’s nap, and a cover when I was nursing in a crowded terminal. I use a fringed scarf, one from Old Navy—it’s $24.99, link here, looks expensive, and has a nice color.
Real Talk: I used it to mop up a juice leftover on my son's face. Still wore it to dinner—nobody knew.
3. One Pair of Kicks (And They Better Be Cute)
I used to pack sneakers and sandals—then wear the same pair the whole trip. Now I bring one pair: Vans Slip-Ons in black; the price is $70; link here. They’re comfy for passing through security but sleek enough to pair with a dress for dinner. No more extra shoes for family photos or walks around.
Real Talk: My 4-year-old stepped on them with his dirty shoes—I wiped them down, and they still looked nice.
4. A Tote That’s Not a Diaper Bag (But Totally Is)
I am using a nice, cute bag from lululemon called the Daily Multi-Pocket Tote Bag, which is $68; link here. It fits diapers, snacks, my laptop, bottles, and a change of clothes for the kids—but it looks like I’m just a fancy travel bag, not just a simple diaper bag. Bonus: it’s got a zipper, so nothing falls out when I’m juggling everything. It is also in black, which can match my every outfit and keep me in style for the trip while everything is inside.
5. Ziploc Outfits for the Kids (no need to mess the whole suitcase)
Each kid gets a Ziploc bag per day for our four days of travel for shirts, pants, underwear, and socks. I label them “Day 1,” “Day 2,” etc. They can grab their own bag for the day, which cuts down on “I don’t like this shirt!” tantrums. If there’s a diaper blowout or a juice spill. This made my life and travel so much easier so I can enjoy my vacation.
6. Mini Beauty Bag of MVPs (Glow in 60 Seconds)
I keep a tiny pouch with just the essentials: CeraVe Tinted Sunscreen SPF 30 (link here) to even my skin, Burt’s Bees Tinted Lip Balm in Red (link here) for a nice fresh look, and Batiste Dry Shampoo (link here) to fake clean hair. I can go from “I didn’t sleep” to “I’ve got this” in one minute.
7. One Statement Accessory (Because We Moms Deserve to Shine)
Pack one bold piece to make you feel like you. I bring a Target chunky gold chain necklace (link here)—it’s light, takes no space, and makes my basic tee-and-jeans look perfect. Even if I’m covered in cracker crumbs, I feel like a stylish mama.
The Win: I Felt Like Me Again
These tips aren’t just about packing—they’re about holding onto the stylish mama I am, even when travel tries to break me. Last trip, I walked off the plane with my tote, my scarf, and my sanity—my kids were a mess, but I got a “You look so put-together!” from my brain. That’s the goal, right? You can do this too—pack light, pack smart, and pack with style.
Your Turn: What’s Your Travel Lifesaver?
How do you keep it together on the road? Drop your go-to travel hack below. Share your chic travel moments with #StylishMamaRoots—I can’t wait to see your vibe!
